Bhhaarr & 2021

I always wished Bhaarr was a place where I could send things and people sporadically.

Okay I lie.

I would send them there more often. More like regularly.

Itnaa life kharab ho gya. Kuch aur hee maang leti šŸ˜†

I begin 2021 by sending the Pandemic and its atrocities to Bhaarr

And here is my to-do list of 21 for 2021

  1. Finally start that bullet journal instead of being caught in the rear view mirror by my husband with a fierce expression on my face, trying to do some lettering in my head (and be laughed at for 30 minutes to follow)
  2. Start using the skincare stash that I collect like a psycho. Need to see empty bottles this year.
  3. Start sleeping at least 5-6 hours every day.
  4. Be regular with my multivitamins.
  5. Go on a diet. After 5 years.
  6. Align Namaz again.
  7. Write more
  8. Study more
  9. Clean out the junk I have been holding on to. This one is for real. I am a hoarder extraordinaire. My in use wallet has train tickets from 2014.
  10. Oil my hair regularly. Been at least 15 years since Iā€™ve done that. Also find the right hair dye shade for myself. The search is a never ending abyss
  11. Donā€™t let ANYTHING encroach on my Sassi time. Iā€™ve faltered this past year because Daddy was home and I would offload her on him. Iā€™ve realised she has separate heart chambers for both of us.
  12. Get website work completed on both my websites and Make two websites I promised my best friends I would.
  13. Get a dresser. Like seriously
  14. Meet deadlines again. 2020 was the only year in life where I missed deadlines left right and centre and shamelessly. Yeah I need to straighten up.
  15. Wear Gharara
  16. Get my lactation work straightened out
  17. Drink a gallon of water. Seriously. I havenā€™t had water for over 24 hours. True story. Iā€™m that bad.
  18. Twice a month at least, just conk off. Switch off the hyperconnectivity and disengage.
  19. Meet friends. Break the inertia and actually start meeting people instead of cancelling every plan because people deplete me. Even if itā€™s one person a fortnight (contingent on how COVID , the Bhaarr candidate behaves)
  20. Spend more time with my sister. Or die trying.
  21. Keep on loving!

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