Muharram, A Sunni’s Reminiscence
As far back as memory allows me, I remember Ashura to be a somber, low key phase in the house. My Nani was a Sunni
As far back as memory allows me, I remember Ashura to be a somber, low key phase in the house. My Nani was a Sunni
My nannhiaal is from Jaunpur in UP (Uttar Pradesh) in India where my mother was born. When they came to Pakistan in the late 1950s,
Sassi has been very low these past few days. Some allergies popping up, her nose keeps getting dried up and that annoys her. This morning
I know my Yakhni Pulao. And this one just aced all of them. Seriously.
I close my eyes and sink back a little in my chair as I take a spoonful of fragrant rice pudding, the Pakistani way, teleporting myself to times where my Nani’s dupatta smelling like an embrace covers my face.
My baby’s first proper cold, flabbergasting at that. My Man Flu and the need for comfort. Takes me back years to a recipe of embodying a hug on a plate
This widely misleading concept is thrown at a woman when she is at her most vulnerable in life. It’s most probably a lie. A well-meaning, flawed and unintentional one at that. But just that.
Don’t fall for it is all I can say.
Pasta is perhaps the Momma of Comfort food. Something about a good pasta is like being hugged by an Italian Grandma with a Good Mushroom Sauce bubbling in a pot somewhere close. How I learned to make filled pasta at Jamie Oliver’s Cookery School.
When my Eid is reduced to a Pot of Gold(ish Yakhni Pulaao) instead of skidding on blood and guts.